I do not talk much. I have reasons for this. I am an owl. I collect information; I observe. I do not give out this information to others very frequently. I am a collector, not a dispenser. One of the reasons I do this is to be trusted. Trust is one thing I strive for. Truly, you can tell me anything, and there is a good chance that I will not let it out. I generally keep even normal conversations fairly confidential. If you specify that you would like it secret, I will not let it out. I do not talk about things I do not need to. I will not talk about those things.
If ever you wish to tell somebody something confidentially, you can tell me, and I will keep your information private. I will not look down on you for what you tell me. I am not a judgemental person. I accept people of all kinds, with all backgrounds. As long as you mean me no harm-- and frequently even if you do --I have no issue against you.
I will not claim to be your friend. I do not even know you. Do you really need a friend? Methinks not, because you most likely have friends, and you cannot tell them certain things either. Perhaps you will catch me, and I will find you to be a kindred spirit. If this is the case, perhaps a friendship will ensue. If not, I still wish you well.